Better Die then beg for love


Better die than beg for love now why I say that you'll find that out while reading the blog.


breakupThe main purpose of this blog is to wake you up from the dream you’ve been dreaming about your girlfriend/Boyfriend valuing you, respecting you, and putting the same efforts as much as you or at least some effort to work this relationship. If your partner is contributing and is dedicated towards you then you’ve got a life partner with whom you can spend life and you don’t need to read this blog but if not, then my friend you’re in a wrong relationship with the wrong partner but in the right place.
Now what I mean by wrong relationship?
So it’s the human nature that the person who overpersuades is considered unattractive and the other person sees you as someone with low self-esteem and low self-respect. They know for the fact that they can manipulate you whenever they want because you my friend are dependent on them.
And whenever break up happens you over chase them, beg them and try to convince them to not break the relationship, but one should understand that if a person loves you then HE/SHE will never let you beg and never put you in this condition. And even if they get convinced what is the guarantee that they will never leave you again? A person who can leave you one time will do it again and again. Which would make you powerless and with no authority?


So one should never Beg someone to stay in relationship with them because if they really wanted they would've never left you in the first place you should develop a mindset where it should not matter to you if the person leaves you and ignores you. You must keep moving forward and should be always opportunistic towards other opportunities. People come and go in your life the only thing which remains constant is you. So start valuing yourself and make a standard for yourself.
This mindset of never getting affected is what makes you attractive and more desirable. I know breakups are painful but it doesn’t mean that we should block all the future opportunities and just waste time begging to that another person who once was your everything.
So ending this blog with The line “Never Beg someone to love you”.


Location: India

Comments

  1. UnknownMay 30, 2020 at 8:44 PM

    Nicely written.

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  2. RajshreeJune 1, 2020 at 11:33 PM

    I never got this concept of begging in relationship, as my knowledge goes Relationship is something in which every gives,sacrifices.Naming a relationship with words like dedication and contribution I guess would be injustice, we never demand nor beg it's always shown dear that's what I feel about the word Love in Relationship, Keep giving & Keep getting !!

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  3. dhiraj BharudeJune 2, 2020 at 12:12 AM

    Yes you're absolutely right! But if you're partner isn't really putting as much efforts as you are and is losing interest then we should not over chase or beg for loving us.

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    1. RajshreeJune 2, 2020 at 12:16 AM

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    2. RajshreeJune 2, 2020 at 12:19 AM

      Where efforts and interest is seen is that really a relationship ? Come on just be into it once you will feel the difference, till then keep Loving inspite begging !!

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    3. dhiraj BharudeJune 2, 2020 at 12:27 AM

      Yeah that's the whole point is to pursue a relationship as a relationship and not something without which you cannot live🤔 people come and go from your life only you're constant.

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